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What Children Will Learn

Discover what your child will learn through Ditto’s Keep Safe Adventure program and ways to support and extend personal safety conversations at home.

For Parents & Carers

Personal Safety
Principles

Ditto's Keep Safe Adventure program is formed around a set of key personal safety principles. Everything in the Ditto program is designed to instill these important principles:

Who Am I?

A strong sense of belonging is vital for a child’s emotional health, wellbeing and development. When children feel connected and valued in their family, community and educational settings, they are more likely to develop a positive self-identity and a stable sense of security. Belonging builds confidence and self-esteem, and as children recognise their place and value in their environments, they better understand their needs and boundaries.

My Safety Team & Go and Tell

Understanding and identifying a Safety Team is crucial for personal safety. When children know who they can turn to for help, it increases the likelihood they will seek support when needed. Recognising who they can trust and encouraging them to ‘Go and Tell’ those trusted adults if something or someone feels unsafe helps to reduce children’s vulnerability and increase their confidence in seeking help.

Feelings

Understanding feelings is essential for children to develop emotional intelligence and awareness of their personal safety. Recognising and naming feelings helps children identify when they are safe and when they might feel unsafe. This understanding empowers children to understand their own emotions and communicate them effectively.

Warning Signs

Children need to recognise their body’s warning signs as important signals that something might be wrong. A warning sign is a physical sensation or feeling that tells us we may be in an unsafe situation. By becoming familiar with their warning signs, children can better understand when they feel unsafe or unsure, link their feelings to safety, and use warning signs as cues to take action.

Our Body

When children learn about their bodies, the anatomical names for their body parts and that their body belongs to them, they are empowered to take ownership of their bodies and respect others’ bodies. By emphasising that our bodies are private and should be respected, we help children understand and assert their personal boundaries, reducing their vulnerability to abuses of power.

eSafety

Understanding eSafety is essential for protecting children from online exploitation. By learning about safe online practices, children can develop the skills to navigate technology responsibly and know how to respond if they encounter something that makes them feel unsafe.

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Ditto’s 3 Rules for Keeping Safe

In the Ditto program, the principles of personal safety are distilled into three basic ‘rules’, which are easy for children to understand and remember through repetition. 'Ditto's 3 Rules' are repeated often throughout the program across all learning levels.
1

We all have the right to feel safe with people.

This rule teaches children that they have the right to feel safe and secure where they live, play, and learn, and that no one has the right to make them do something that makes them feel unsafe or unsure.

2

It’s OK to say ‘NO’ if you feel unsafe or unsure.

This rule teaches children that it is OK to stand up for themselves and say ‘NO’ if something doesn’t feel right. It builds their confidence to hold firm and say ‘No’ clearly, even to someone older or more powerful, and to trust that their voice matters.

3

Nothing is so yucky that you can’t tell someone about it.

One of the reasons that children fail to disclose harm is because they are afraid of getting into trouble. This rule helps to encourage them to speak to a trusted adult, even if something seems scary or terrible.

Using Anatomically Correct Names

Ditto’s Keep Safe Adventure program supports the use of anatomically correct names for body parts.

Why is this Important?

If a child is sexually or physically abused and can correctly name the body parts as part of their disclosure, they are more likely to be clearly understood. Nicknames or euphemisms can be ambiguous, leaving adults uncertain about what has happened. That specificity matters not just for the child telling their story, but for the adults who need to recognise abuse and protect the child from further harm. Furthermore, research shows that children who know the proper names for their private body parts are less likely to suffer sexual abuse (1). When children learn about their body matter-of-factly, they learn that no part of it is taboo or off-limits to discuss. That clarity and confidence can make them less appealing targets for perpetrators, who rely on secrecy and shame to groom and manipulate their victims. 

What Children Learn

Our presenters name the following body parts in the show, using this exact language: “Private parts are our mouth, chest, between our legs, and our buttocks. Between our legs, some people have a penis and a scrotum, and some people have a vulva and a vagina. Everyone has buttocks, nipples, and a mouth. (A mouth is a private part because it can be used for kissing.)"

Is This Sex Education?

No. Personal safety education is not the same thing as sex education. Personal safety education does include helping children identify body parts using correct anatomical names and understanding body ownership and personal boundaries; however, it does not include concepts around sex or sexuality. These are concepts that are explored in respectful relationships and consent education.

Research References: (1) Kerr, K. (2022). Private Body Parts: Why, When & How to Start the Conversation; Schiedel, B. (2021). This Is How You Talk to Kids About Their Private Parts; Trew, S., Russell, D. H., Higgins, D. J., & Walsh, K. (2021). Effective Delivery Methods and Teaching Strategies for Child Sexual Abuse Prevention: A Rapid Evidence Check. Institute of Child Protection Studies, Australian Catholic University.

Helping Children Identify Their Safety Team

Children are empowered to create their own Safety Team to be better equipped to seek help in challenging situations.

What Is a Safety Team?

A safety team is a group of up to five trusted adults identified by the child as people they can turn to for help, support and reassurance.

Who Can Be in It?

These can be adults inside and outside the family who will believe the child, listen and help keep them safe.

Why It Matters

Knowing exactly who to turn to in advance means a child doesn't have to work out who will believe them while they're already scared or unsure - that decision is already made. Having several trusted adults, rather than relying on just one, also widens their safety net and increases the chance that a disclosure is heard quickly and acted on.

Tips

A child’s safety team can include parents, relatives, teachers, carers or other trusted adults.

Protecting Children and Young People from Sexual Abuse

A Guide for Parents and Carers

Developed by Bravehearts and in consultation with child protection experts, this comprehensive guide provides parents and carers with advice on how to start and maintain meaningful conversations with their children and young people about body ownership, personal safety, eSafety, consent and more.

The guide also includes essential information about the prevalence of child sexual abuse and exploitation in Australia, potential signs of grooming and child sexual abuse, and how to respond to and report disclosures of abuse.

Need More Information?

Answers to the most commonly asked questions about Ditto’s Keep Safe Adventure proram.